Post by buckandbolt on Oct 21, 2019 0:25:12 GMT
Hi all,
Some of you will remember us, we used to be very active back in the day but then I moved to the states for work and my SO isn't super in to the forum life.
Anyway, our wonderful, beloved, pirate-degu Buck passed away on Saturday (hard to believe it is only yesterday) after a respiratory illness that wouldn't clear up. We're devastated and life is never going to be the same but we know he was really suffering the last few days so there's some comfort in knowing he's not in pain anymore.
We're now dealing with the difficult conversations about what is best for Bolt. We want to do the best thing possible for him but we're really struggling to decide what that is, everything seems to come with pluses and minuses.
Our options so far seem to be:
Sorry, I know this is super long. We've really been going back and forth on this and are getting really stressed about it all.
Some of you will remember us, we used to be very active back in the day but then I moved to the states for work and my SO isn't super in to the forum life.
Anyway, our wonderful, beloved, pirate-degu Buck passed away on Saturday (hard to believe it is only yesterday) after a respiratory illness that wouldn't clear up. We're devastated and life is never going to be the same but we know he was really suffering the last few days so there's some comfort in knowing he's not in pain anymore.
We're now dealing with the difficult conversations about what is best for Bolt. We want to do the best thing possible for him but we're really struggling to decide what that is, everything seems to come with pluses and minuses.
Our options so far seem to be:
- Try to find a boy his age and hope they form a bond. The problem here is the fact I am still overseas and my SO can work very long and exhausting days. Also, the boys used to have the run of the living room and hallway and spare bedroom during the day and so confining Bolt to a cage during the introduction period seems wrong to us after he has been used to so much freedom.
- Getting two younger degus (we have been advised if we get younger ones we would need to get a pair). Again, the issue around introductions are the same and we're also concerned if they are bonded and Bolt gets excluded it would be awful for him.
- Find a place to take Bolt. We'd want to be sure this was the right home for him where he had lots and lots space to run. We're thinking the deal would be people with a bunch of degus that came from different places and were introduced to each other as this seems the most likely scenario for him to be accepted. We'd obviously be devastated to let him go and it would be incredibly painful for us but to see him happy in a degu pile again would be worth it (maybe, I am honestly crying while typing.) If there was a sanctuary or something that would be the kind of thing we would wish for him
- Keep him as a solo degu as long as he's still happy and healthy. Here we're not so sure - how long does it take for degus to not be able to bond with other degus? If he's a solo for a month and starts looking depressed is it too late to rehome him. The other issue would be that being long distance, my SO travels to see me a fair bit. Normally my dad looks after the boys but he doesn't stay at our flat so we'd be constantly worried about Bolt getting lonely.
- Is it possible to get a fixed female? We're not sure about this but it seems like it would reduce the risk of fighting and rejection if we could.
- (Edit) We'd also like to know if any animals get on with Degus so we could maybe adopt one of them so he has company? Not sure if that is an option but we're going round and round in circles trying to work out what to do...
Sorry, I know this is super long. We've really been going back and forth on this and are getting really stressed about it all.